As a family grows in numbers there is bound to be some issues. Reports say when a couple has a child satisfaction plummets. The same is true as those children grow and bring new members in to the family. It turns out that not only can you not pick your family, you can't pick who they pick to join the family.
Another life lesson I just learned the hard way is that you should keep your opinions to yourself. If someone wants to date a psycho hose beast, then perhaps that's exactly what they deserve. Instead of assuming they deserve better, just accept that you do. You can't control other people, but you can control how often and where you interact with those icky people. Bottom line, screw them and their bad choices! Watch your own back and do what's best for you!